Divorce Rates Surge in Kashmir: Experts Cite Modernization, Economic Shifts, and Changing Social Dynamics
By ANN News Web Desk | Srinagar
Kashmir Valley is witnessing an alarming rise in divorce cases over the past decade, reflecting significant changes in societal norms, gender dynamics, and family structures. According to multiple reports, divorce applications have increased from 0.34% to nearly 5% in just 15 years, with annual petitions now crossing 1,000 cases. Most of these cases are being filed by young couples aged between 21 and 30 years — a trend experts describe as a sign of changing times.
Experts attribute the growing divorce trend to modernity, westernization, and shifting gender roles. The increasing economic empowerment of women, greater awareness of individual rights, and reduced societal stigma surrounding divorce have all contributed to this transformation.
Sociologists note that today’s generation is more aware, but often less tolerant. “There’s a visible decline in patience and emotional resilience among young couples,” says a family counselor based in Srinagar. “Unstable relationships, lack of compromise, and toxic communication patterns are becoming common.”
Societal Pressure & Expectations: Unrealistic expectations and family interference often escalate minor disagreements into major disputes.
Economic Challenges: Rising unemployment, financial stress, and substance abuse are among the leading causes of marital discord.
Infertility: For some couples, the inability to conceive creates additional emotional strain.
Communication Breakdown: Poor
communication and ego clashes are frequently cited as reasons for separation.
Under the law, child custody decisions are made in the best interests of the child, focusing on welfare, safety, and education. Maintenance and alimony are determined based on the financial capacity of both partners and the needs of any dependents. Legal experts advise couples to seek professional guidance from divorce lawyers to navigate these sensitive matters fairly.
Reports show that a large proportion of divorcees in Kashmir are women, many of whom are left managing single-parent households. Social stigma may have decreased, but economic and emotional challenges remain significant. Several NGOs and women’s welfare groups have called for stronger community support systems for divorced women and their children.
Compared to earlier generations, today’s Kashmiri society is witnessing a shift in values — where personal happiness and self-respect often outweigh the pressure to remain in an unhappy marriage. While this evolution reflects progress in gender equality and personal rights, it also underscores the need for better emotional education, pre-marital counseling, and communication skills among youth.
